does not engage in sexual relations)." But we really would prefer to remember because we know it would make you happy. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) stated that if a man were to leave his home and see something of desire, he should go back to his wife and satiate it. During the times of the Prophet (PBUH) this was allowed because of the wars and the widows left without anyone to care for them. Just because man is ALLOWED to take a second wife, doesnt mean he should. Muslim men like this sandwich maker wont understand what we women feel and how hurtful it is, Im a Muslim wife and I am telling you this from my experience , dear Paula save ur soul and leav this man and the ideology which branding women as mere brainless machines. and trial for her, and if she bears that with patience she will have the There are many instances in which a man may choose to marry another woman. I am a white English revert sister, who was raised Catholic my whole life before coming to Islam, so I know I am fighting my ingrained culture when I feel instinctively against it. Good question. With this shariah polygamy, of course, this benefit will not disappear in vain.(Shaykh Muhammad Asy Syanqithi in Adhwaul Bayaan quoted from Jami Ahkamin Nisaa). Below is one of the hadith narrated. Asalam o Alakum Have more time for ur friends than her. Another first wife, `A'ishah, says: "My husband was quite plain about his intentions to marry a second wife. 3 If she feels angry because of that, but she controls her (i`m not pregnant) and dont let someone walk over you. So.If the women is the bread winners, is the shoe on the other foot? I am a practicing Muslim by birth. (interpretation of the meaning): Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in If You Nudge Him, He Can Be A Better Muslim Finally, smart men do exist!! thats another thing his wife is age 25 and me 46. There is a reason why the majority of inhabitants in Jahhanam are women. It is allowed in Islam and he does not need permission. (Imam al-Bukhari ). Its like a drug. He forgot all the years that we have spent together, since he has grown bored with me and wants a change." I am a devout Muslim but multiple marriages disgust me. The cookie is set by the GDPR Cookie Consent plugin and is used to store whether or not user has consented to the use of cookies. Now I realize how good I got it because Alhamdulillah my wife is not like most of you regurgitating your jahiliyya to an extent to commit major kufr. Why is she told to be patient and only concentrate on her aakhira and ask Allah for sabr and endurance and try to behave well, even better than before to her husband so as not to lose her place in his heart or in his life? looking at women is natural and unsinnful is just YOUR THINKING AND NOT ALL MENS. Below here are the following hadith and Quran that shows 17 Islamic rules for second marriage. I have 5 years old boy child. Hi,I came across this when googling about Islamic views on male fantasies.I have been married for the last 8 years and realised my husband not only think about other women (which you seem to agree that most men do,well most straight men at least) but what is recommended that I do should I realise that not only does my husband think about other women,he thinks about having sex with them as well.I find it truly disturbing and upsetting not to mention disrespectful but he seemed to be forcing me to accept this is what it really is.I am truly lost.Please advise. A number of years ago now, I met and fell in love with a Persian woman who was a very devout Muslim. Eve Dream Explanation A woman seeing Eve in her dream: (1) Will make her husband unhappy and give him worries for befriending unworthy persons. Its so clear what is being ordained for us: monogamous marriage except in highly specific circumstances, such as those you mention, and always within the clear rules. It was only a couple of centuries ago that the Church restricted the number of wives to one. So that really shows how big a mans right is in this issue. That hadith is BOGUS. Thank you. May I point out that marriage is very hard experience for both parties. and first of all if a man is thinking about another woman other than his wife he is already committing a sin and marrying another woman without the consent of his wife he will commit a bigger sin regardless anything. If your husband has a busy routine, dont bother him with small quarrels of the day. Has there been negative history? lets come to nowadays situation, in any country you will see women that are affected for she couldnot get one to marry or she may divorce or widow. But there is Quranic verse. Just ridiculous. he will not be able to stay with out her. , Jazakumullah Khairan, may Allah strenghten you and give you more wisdom. Just think of whatever you did was because Allah aksed you to do this (includes all the respect/care you gave to your husband), and imagine that Allah will definitely be happy with you coz you did as He had asked. My above statement was based on what I have understood from the article. else who is also married or not married? Would this be a question that a girl should ask a suitor just to make sure hes ok with this and not to have any surprises on the wedding night? Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife? said to her: Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you plz advice me thanks. Broadly, Islam has five categories of Dos and Donts. The Truth is, one who does an atoms weight of evil,will see it. this second wife issue is not for fun as many men want to believe. My husband married his brother's wife. People want things their way with other people so will only use that part of Islam that suits them. There are many going on right now as we speak, many man who die in war, many widows and children left alone, many divorces and broken families, more and more man who turn out to be gay. Have taqwa women! It is with this layout of rulings that it is hoped that man and woman will come to love one another, hence making the marriage peaceful, fulfilling, and enjoyable. He is weak in Taqwa. Sex hormones are released in the adult body every day. Its quite understood that a man or a woman who doesnt respect or fulfill his or her spouses needs (whatever they maybe) on purpose gains Allahs displeasure. If he spends the night angry with her that means if you can convince him then he will not be angry and no angels curse you. Lastly, just like the man, a woman desires respect from her man too. Sometimes you have to be careful in the words you choose when talking about your faith. ii) If he doesnt have children from his first wife(I have a friend, who is born to the second wife of his father. Chapter 4, Verse 34. No one likes to be preached to.But if you do this right, youll be getting a double reward: The reward that comes with living with a righteous husband. Views : I just want to know how a potential husband would react to this and would he be angry or frustrated and would this be a bad start to a marriage? A businesswoman, Mrs. Tomi Harrison (not real name), said she contemplated suicide when her husband informed her of his plans to marry a second wife. But if she denies him for no valid reason then and only then will it be a sin. iv) To give protection to a widow or any other woman who requires it. The coworker response, he never told you? my response,tell me what?the coworker replies, he has been married for two yrs and has a child. I confronted him and he lied about having a wife and child. "I was busy and studying. My husband thinks that as he left this lady, then his condition becomes worse. This is just how it is, in all schools of thought in Islam. dream and the like, these are usually illusionary matters on which no shari Our minds collect things and remember much better than we think. A good wife is pressures, a husband sometime forgets what his got. P.S Please keep open minds, do not try to scare one another with threats of you nearly left islam with your words. This kind of cases are very common among Muslims you can search it o. Unbelievable!!! 6. GOD has not created women emotionless bestowed all these blessings upon you, so what you should do is be grateful theres a thing called devil n he took the better of my husband n he repeated himself in his act of betreyal.god damn it it hurts.n its all this male mustangs fault.respect,huh!!! As Mohammed Mynul Islam said, and he (the husband) spends the night angry.. Ofcourse not. my question is that what do you want me to do?do you want me to have patience? But its true (usually). means of entering Paradise, as it says in the hadeeth narrated by Ibn sister Fatima, May ALLAH forgive you. Of course sister if a woman wanted to have sex with her husband & intensionally he refuse it. One should learn how to respect his wife. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): who repress anger, and who pardon men; verily, Allaah In some of the following hadith, it is stated. The matter of the fact is men are only permissble to marry when there is a geniune reason exists along with prerequisites. There are certain things that a woman can put on her marriage contract to prohibit the man. then how can he accept to destroy the home of his Muslim brother and split If available, get professional support or involve trusted friends that understand the cultural background. Id rather get a divorce form my husband than allow him to be married to another person. Source : islamiclearningmaterials.com, Hi, Nice article. I cannot stress that enough- a mans mind is what matters. By clicking Accept, you consent to the use of ALL the cookies. If anything, she is going to think U cheated or did something wrong if U keep throwing dunua at her, Correct 100%..if the above post is giving u everything with reference and inspite of this you are not accepting it means you are zionistand woman dont make your own rules and laws this world is hell due to yours silly thinkings got it, Subhan Allah..JazakAllah,.. Its ridiculous. When polygamy is brought up we have this notion or fantasy that the man will be living the life and fulfill his desire and the women will suffer. In the hadith of Abu Dawud below, it is narrated. Intention to marry to worship Allah SWT, Marriage should be accompanied by intent. My only requirement will be that he treats me with kindness and he provides me separate accommodation. I guess no matter how much effort you put in but this particular relationship is based on your destiny. dont make up hadiths urself. Sister Sabeeqa, this life is a test for us to be rewarded in the life hereafter. well said KAY i totally agree with you. take time to find out. arguments arise amongst them, which turn the marital relationship into an But you cant force him. (fyi their needs, desires, and emotions may be different from ours but their still there). The Prophet did warn men not to hurt their wives and then expect sex an hour later. hello I am reading your article now in 2017. But also recognize that this will also cause damage and harm to your family. Dont bother asking any men. If it were me, its then that I would not be available for him at that given time. In no event shall AboutIslam, its counselors or employees be held liable for any damages that may arise from your decision in the use of our services. According to it:- When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. Women are not to be condemned for this jealousy, for it existed in the best of righteous women, the wives of the Companions, and even in the Mothers of the Believers. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. Although this dream does not usually mean what is been portrayed in the dream, this could be a result of something which happened in the past finding its way back to our present life. Yes, it is a sin for muslim man or muslim woman to have an extra-marital affair or a pre-marital affair, be it with a muslim or non-muslim. Man and women are psychologically different as well. Both were married too. Asian women are used to this and don't see anything wrong with it. It doesnt mean hes fantasizing about another woman. The idea, that he or she is not going to stick by you.Im not talking about infidelity. Establishment of kinship among fellow human beings. of reaching you or your family or children. The author of the article should revise that fact about multiple marriages and how it say it should be undertaken only due to dire needs (not because He wants to for fun). I thought of leaving him and live alone with my son. So really, #4 about him thinking of other women is not bad, that is his right. Make her feel special & shell make you feel special too. I have conferted to muslim 15 years now Im sure each wife will be happy with that. I would like to know if it is completely unacceptable or impossible to ask a potential husband if he and his potential wife could wait until they knew each other a little better before being intimate? This is what I am afraid of. Allah is watching and the almighty will give you strength and courage. When we wrote our nikkah, I ask this to be added. Men get turned on, just by looking at other women. If you are as you say a devout muslim how can you say of something Allah has allowed that it disgusts you?? I read that, and I was shocked! Allah knows best! Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. The purpose behind multiplr marriages was to help and sehlter war victims or widows. Your right to them is that they do not allow anyone you hate to step on your stretch. he wants to marry me but he said what if there was a 2nd one? And read Surrendered Wife and Fascinating Womanhood the books. If the conditions for a second marriage are right according to the Shari`ah, he can legally go ahead and marry. No one deserves to be spoken to like that. Dont unsubscribe from my mailing list just yet. So much responsability. Really. I pray sister all works well for you Bravo.Mashallah.this is the thoughts of a regular muslim guy. Zakkiya http://www.muslimommy.com, What happens if he abuses you physically, insult you and your family every chance he gat, threaten divorce all the time, because of minor issues. the shaytaan that have to do with this matter, and do not give evil any way In Islam, this is allowed in the second marriage. Then he is not in true love with his first wife. (Narrated by Muslim). (4) Will give birth to virtuous children. dont thomp your thinking on all men! I am not Muslim, however I respect/support his beliefs and the teachings/love of Allah. Source: My husband divorced me during menses 11 years ago. My Husband Married Another Woman Secretly. So what happens when he is getting the respect, loyalty and physical attention from his wife and still seeking for wife no 2? The mind is what you will live with for fifty years. He tries to do something (like start a business or go back to school) but fails at it. Mashaa Allaah,this was a pleasant article to read. You truly believe your superior and have more rights? Allah, Most High, does not command that a married couple love each other. i used to kiss his feet,smell his pillow n shirts ,took care of his mom n welcomed his relatives.n now theres nothing but hurt n ppl tell me to 4give.HELL!!! A man has to financially emotionally physically and mentally take care of 2 households. All the ladies grown up in west (myself included) like to think men and woman have the same rights ( I am not saying every body but there are some) . You r married to him and having two children, just try to not as to much attention and care about ur children as long as hes good with you, respects you, caring about family financially then do it for your children,unless untill they are enough grown-up. As for Muslimah, do always remember Allah knows everything and he is mercy full, so what will you do .. Will you make DUA asking Allah wish. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Cant it wait till the weekend? And I absolutely adore our baby, more than I ever . Many Hindu religious personalities, according to their scriptures, had multiple wives. Even that Muslims brother had a couple of wives in Paris. Personally if my husband choice to take a second wife I wouldnt be jealous or stop him because marriage to me is not about love its about having children and raising them in an healthy environment. He is not interested in physical affection anymore. Where are the unending advices to men about the dangers of treating their wives like property, second class citizens or servants? 7. Well done. or Imaan will give you the strength you need to overcome the problems in your life and deal with things you are unhappy with. Create an account, If you do not have an account, you can click the button below to create one, Create new account I could not fathom him holding her close and whispering loving words in her ears. And dont be so quick to nag him about the things he doesnt do right. Women in 2017 dont need financial assistance from their spouse. iii) If he is not satisfied with his first wife in serious matters. its haram to do that. In marriage both the partners have to work togther. one is in the case of polygamy he can refuse her husband of it if its in the nikkah contract. And the reward in the next life for encouraging your husband to the truth. Men have distorted Islam to the point its unrecognisable. Am I guessing right to say he is not legal in your county ? She may declare that she loves him, but without her respect, he will quickly fall out of love with her. May Allah bless you both. What are rhis women supposed to do? (2) The lady is trying to get her daughter married. Its HARAM to look at other women to begin with so how would it be ok for them to be attracted to other women.I dont look or think about anyone but my husband!! continue to befall the believer, man or woman, concerning himself, his child It says in the Reliance of the Traveller, "The husband of a woman who bears a child (0: no matter whether his marriage to her is valid or invalid) is considered to be the child's father whenever it is (N: legally) possible that the child could be his, meaning that: (a) the woman gave birth to the child six months plus a moment after the . This list will give you good idea of some of the things your husband thinks about, but just doesnt know how, or want, to tell you. There is no other religious book that instructs men to have only one wife. You men are so full of your selves. Jazakallahukairan, am really insppired by this post. The sahaba were real men and were fighters and very responsible people. I am a married woman with kids.My husband treats me very well and takes care of me well.Recenetly one of his relatives a guy almost about 10 years younger than I am and I became very close and before I knew it he fell in love with me.I told him that its not on but his feelings for me grew and grew. Thank u very much jazakallahu khairan. However, if the man wants to marry after the second, Islam limits in it. Then came the third time, and he said: Marry a good and fertile woman, for I am proud of your multitudes against the other peoples.(HR Abu Dawud and Shaykh al-Albani), Another factor that allows a man to make a second marriage is due to an illness suffered by his wife. Man is not allowed to divorce a woman just because she cannot give birth to his son/daughter. He uttered the divorce words three times in one meeting, then I went back to my parents house. because the husband might demand sex and the wife would be refusing it due to her fasting. Yes, your right. Did your family find out details on him before marrying you? ALLAH says us many things to do and each an everything for our betterment. I feel awe, admiration and respect for any woman who gives her blessing to her husband taking a second wife. (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). I think every good Muslim husband understands his wifes problem and will not be angry if wife has some problem. I agree with her. Of course he'll desire sex but that doesn't mean he should disrespect you. I love my husband so much that I can not see myself sharing him with another woman. For this reason, there are more deaths among males as compared to the females during paediatric age. Hmmm! also i think you should know that. Salam Aleykum, First ray of real light Ive seen in these sad and depressing comments. In Islam, men are taught from a young age that they are supposed to be the bread-winners and caretakers of their families. You never know a persons situation until you are in it. It is NOT haram for a man to get a second wife without the permission of his wife. JazakAllahukhayran for your comment it was a point well made. If she is telling you otherwise its bcuz she thinks thia is the best she can hope for with u and ur marriage is in big trouble. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. I read your comments and i felt very nice. my husband Mustapha and I his wife Maureen appreciate the verses from the Holy Quron but frankly the rest of what you say is either useless or wrong. This is a very great blessing indeed, which is not appreciated by We do not know of any saheeh evidence which refers to the You are right there sister, I fell the same way my husband keep telling me that he is allow to Marry and so he would not need my permission to do so. since its Allahs will and polygamy is halal. sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, not even a doing something that is haraam, so how can he pray istikhaarah and claim But we need to understand the spirit of the Islamic ruling first. It is his conduct with his wives and living a life according to Islam that will determine where he ( and all muslims) will end up. Islam Q&A, You can ask your question on the website via this link: https://islamqa.info/en/ask, Password should contain small, capital letter and at least 8 characters long, Log in Ds my true life I am leaving with Allahs mercy. Handsome. I dont think he likes me or my family. Al-Tirmidhi (2399) narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the A woman who cannot conceive a child doesnt have to be frigid. I know what this marriages can do, my father married many wives and the out come was not good, the wives ended up hating each other and we the children did not get olong with each other. And since Hajj is the jihad of a woman, accepting polygamy for the first wife is more than jihad. If he loves you although you are But there are no ex children. If you still want to know more then as a sheikh. As described in one of the verses of the Quran below. in Quran it was said to marry more than one. Second, third and fourth marriage is allowed by sharia. How many can do so? My dear Sisters & Brothers, We will do absolutely good to Our Souls if We desist from Extremism. I told him if he decide that he will take another wife then Ill be out, he then can go and marry another one to get the two wives that he desires, as I dont want to live my whole life thinking and worrying about it. Im not saying you should share your husband but if men want to take other wives then they can and we cannot put conditions on them that Allaah did not. My life was Malcolm X and Maya Angelou, X-Men and Spider-Man; summers were spent at my nani's house in Karachi, and winters trudging through Yorkshire snow. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to marry more than one wife. Hmmmm. fallen into a trap of the shaytaan, because he has made you attractive to She said she never saw it coming because. As for the positive result that you say your friend got, Men who do polygamy should be wiser in the face of jealousy of their wives. d ring. BarakAllahu feekum. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males. She was loyal and pleased him sexually, why did he venture off? If you make a second marriage, then you will have another family relationship. I wouldnt allow my future husband to marry a 18 never married single gal, but if hes going to marry a widow, a divorced or older lady who couldnt get married, then maybe, maybe we can talk about him getting a second wife. These women truly are the best among us, because it is such a hard and difficult thing to do. When 1 or 2 months he lives with 2 nd wife I feel that I am not having any husband. The difference is of course in the idea that what we do is more for the sake of Allah Taaalaa than for ourselves. He Thinks About Other Women Any true Muslim woman that follows the Quran and not her husbands list of expectations would know how to treat her husband, a stupid list like this is not even necessary. 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